What a wonderful and handsome son you had in 1972! And perfect that he got to go after his heart's desire...so he truly lived. He did not have to live long enough to go through the disappointments and re-evaluations of the 40's, when people love you less...this was a good life I am happy for him though the ones left behind suffer more when there was no downturn first... maybe this is a good idea: just make sure u don't make him feel bad for leaving at his peak, don't let him think his life bummed you out let him see you happy he was there instead and knowing you'll see each other again - I'm sure you will and even have been...its just something to say aloud we already know...I know every time you smile he'll be proud of you! If he came to earth intentionally to come alongside and love and help you, and if he did so even if he knew he would not stay overly long, that would be even more important. Keep up the good work that's really living! - From, Roberta - a mom with sons, who lived past that peak of perfection in her family's eyes but keeps going :) r.l.mccaslin@moshiach.com